Greet your husband and give him a hug... Let him know again that you missed him or were thinking about him today. Again, this is secondary to what you are feeling. Just do it. If he says something like 'Wow, two days in a row? Do you want money or something?' Ignore it. He is saying this to you because he is noticing your actions & they feel good to him. What may feel like sarcasm to you is playful bantering to him. After you hug him, leave the room. Don't allow for conversation about your new behavior. This isn't a game, we are just trying to avoid getting into a discussion about unresolved issues that you are not equipped to handle just yet.
Okay... so this one wasn't anything new... to me at least, even though I snuggled a little longer than just a hug but my husband is not a snuggler and me and Noah totally are... but he lets us, he loves us that much... The only hard part was trying to retype the lesson for today because I couldnt copy and paste it and Johnny and Noah were in negotiations in the living room and I couldn't concentrate... Jeez, I couldnt tune them out and usually I can but It was getting pretty close to Noah being sent to bed early so I had to listen to see if your evening was getting cut short LOL.
I wasn't feeling too well today but it was a good day anyway, I went to Toys R Us this evening to get a game for Noah's DS for his bday and picked up a few things for him, I think I get just as excited as him because I love wrapping his presents and seeing him get excited and Noah is a great kid, he loves everything he gets so I can get him a bunch of easy toys and he loves them just the same as the fancy ones... He really cleans up so I tend not to over do it, sort of... he he, i like to get him things that I know he will enjoy, at least for the moment because kids lose or break everything.... I am over trying to prevent that, I can buy him $2 dollar toys and he is happy as can be... The hardest part for me is that on his actual birthday I have to take cupcakes and snacks and pizza for his classroom, ya, one of the kids in his class her mom took all the kids stuffed animals for her birthday. Don't these moms realize we are just making it harder on ourselves?! Luckily I had already bought Army helmets since Noah is into GI Joe for all the kids... GOTCHA.. humph... AS IF! and I am going to do hersheys bars with Camo Wrapping and put Happy Birthday Noah on the label... Cupcakes with little army men and mac N cheese to go with the pizza... Ya, the only one I am killing is myself ... I know... and then that night we are doing Hot Dogs for the family and I have to make a cake then too... good grief, thank goodness his party is at Gatti-Land and I get to kick back for the most part...
Guess I got a little off the subject huh? Well my honey and I did do something out of the ordinary last night, first we went to the first Unitas Marriage Prep class, we are one of the sponsor couples now but before we got married we were one of the first couple to go through the program 6 years ago... Aaaahhhh love, ya, oh the dreams of happily ever after LOL, its good but it is not always sunshine and roses baby! (at least for some people... MY honey is great...just in case he is reading this) ...Love, look what you've done to me... never thought I'd fall again so easily... anyway, we sent to have a drink after we left the meeting on our way to pick up Noah, and it was nice... so I am venturing out of my comfort zone because I really wasn't feeling well and could totally hear my PJ's calling me...but I took the opportunity to show my husband that being with him was better than flannel PJ's anyday....
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