Find a happy place...

• Okay, so I am trying to get things straight in my head today… it has been a busy weekend and I am a little frustrated today, running late for work (won’t it be nice when I don’t have to say that anymore), look like a basically jumped out of bed and came to work (which I did!) and I am just fussy! Let’s just say that I have had to swallow air A Lot and the gas is building up… My problem is everyone else seems to think they are the only ones requesting things from me and I seem to get pulled everywhere and not staying put with my own little family. But… NOT TODAY! I am hand delivering 3 “No’s” today and staying home tonight to do laundry, clean MY house, run MY errands and spend time with MY family…. Who knows, this may be the start of something new… LOL Oh don’t get me wrong, family is not the only guilty party, but being the willing person that I am I need to start saying ‘no’ a little more and worrying about it a lot less. Here are my helpful hints for today.
  If someone is doing something that is bothering you and you are sick and tired of it, call THEM and tell them…
  If you think someone is fed up with you, your probably right…
  Be considerate that even though you may not have anything else to do, the person who’s time you are taking MAY….
  If you are mad at someone, please direct those emotions to that person and don’t share with the innocent bystanders.
  If your grouchy stay home
  If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything
  If people get up and move when you sit down that is the first sign that you are behaving badly…
  Guilt worked when I was a child, I am not a child anymore. If you choose to give in to guilt, don’t drag other people along for the ride…
  If you don’t want to do it, what makes you think someone else wants to do it for you?
  If you want to be happy, make yourself happy… happiness is a choice… If you can’t be happy… then don’t share your unhappiness…
  Life is good, don’t waste it…
  You are not the only one with struggles, you just like to share yours… A LOT
  Laughing makes everything better
  Don’t ask me how someone else is doing, call them and ask them…
  I make enough of my own bad choices to worry about someone else’s
  I get myself out of my own messes and solve my own problems. Try it…
  My phone is not the number for information or emergencies that don’t involve me.
  If you want to feel sorry for yourself, go right ahead… just don’t expect people to do the same…. No one wants an invitation to a pity party.
  We can only do what we can, everything else will get taken care of eventually.
  I don’t care if you get mad because I can’t do something when it is convenient for you but I do care if you get mad at me and forget everything that I have done…
  I love doing good deeds, I just don’t like feeling like I have to list them all to prove to you that I do as much as you do… It stops being a good deed when you have to tell everyone about it.
  God died for our sins, he is the only one I am going to praise…
  I am having a good day, I am having a good day, I am having a good day…
  Ha ha… do you have any to add to my list? Just when I think I am done another one pops into my head!
  Peace Love Joy Serentiy …. NOW… :)