Monday, May 10, 2010

Old Moms....

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. – Thessalonians 5:16-18

 

I call myself an old Mom, and this is true…  to a certain extent…  I was 34 when I had Noah, and with kids having babies now… that is old!  Of course my OB/GYN thought I was crazy when I would tell her that because she had just moved to Texas from San Francisco and she said we were crazy here!  She meant that with love…and fascination… LOL Crazy because the majority of her moms to be were under 20 and she herself didn’t have her first until she was 38 which was right on track for where she was from.  It is fascinating to me the differences from one area to another.  I remember when I was taking a Sociology class at TLU and one of my classmates was a New York transplant (she got here as quick as she could), she was 35 and had moved down here with her new husband, her family thought she was crazy for moving and everyone was giving her a hard time because she wanted to have kids right away and they kept telling her she was too young…  she was stressed out because she moved here and now she was an old maid!  I am glad to be an old mom, because I stress now but I would have been a basket case if I had Noah younger, because let me tell you…  it sure ain’t easy, don’t let all the talk shows and commercials make it look grand, because it is work, and I laugh now when I think of how it was such an innocent thing to want to be a Mommy, oh, I love being a mommy but believe me, it is a dang good thing I have a sense of humor and I will be the first to admit, you better be okay with not having privacy anymore because my son doesn’t let me have a moments peace…

I think that he is lucky to have an old mommy…  because I am older and have less inhibitions and can go with the flow much more, the petty things don’t seem to get to me as much but I also have perfected the art of making my nieces and nephews squirm when they see me in a crowd because they never know what Aunt Marla is going to do…  my son…  will hate it, and it will keep him from asking me to take him here and there with his friends… I am sure they will think I am way cool but my son will roll his eyes and ask me to PLEASE not do anything….

Here are just some of the fun things an old mom is Okay with:

*An old mom let’s her son buy all the biker tattoos he wants from the quarter candy machine and helps him put them all over, she even takes the time to avoid “scrubbing” them at bath time so we can make them last an extra day… 

*An old mom looks for a sleeveless shirt so her son can show off his skull with fire tattoo on one shoulder and his raging bull with a fork tongue tattoo and his other arm  to all his other Pre-k friends at Catholic school…  and don’t forget the venom spewing shark tattoo he has across the whole side of his face…  yup, she knows the importance of looking cool…  AND pushing the rules…just enough…

*An old mom knows she can say “I can’t believe his auntie let him wear those to school” if someone says anything… LOL

*An old mom BUYS the shirts at the coast that say “Bite Me” for her son to wear to school so he can make his teachers laugh…

*An old mom has no problem paying the extra money for 3-D movies…and don’t forget the popcorn…  and of course we have to find the T-shirt and PJ’s if the movie is good, ya, I get all that stuff without even being asked because hey, your only a kid once… and who cares if it’s the late feature, we have eternity to sleep, let’s do it!

*An old mom buys the shoes in all the colors if you like them that much…

*An old mom will find it on the internet if we can’t find it in the store… and hello, they have express shipping for a reason…

*An old mom realizes how precious each moment is and how short life is…  heck ya you can eat your dessert with your food!

*An old mom’s heart really knows what the phrase “it hurts me more than it does you” means… 

*An old mom tells you to hit back, push back and not let anyone bully you, if you let them once, you’ll be a sure target for the rest of your days…  push them back ‘just enough’

*An old mom tells you to stick up for your friends, be kind and remember, rain is only water…. 

*An old mom says sometimes skip days are needed…

*An old mom makes you help other people until it comes naturally…

*An old mom prays constantly for her child… knowing that in the end, there future is already planned and only God shall sustain us all…

*An old mom loves HARD, pushes gently and knows best…  An old mom knows what her child will need to survive and strives with all her being to give him that…


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